Some people are just different, born and meant to lie on a different proximal. You can’t expect every tangent line to have a similar gradient, that’s what equations are for.
Differently annoying and irritating, differently innocent or just plain shallow. Differently thinking straight without the ability to take alternative bending.
Difference in attitude; I scrutinize at this issue and finally summed up a rather rigid and true conclusion. Background, elaboration is not needed. Simply surrounding, circumstances, interactions behind the area of contemplation of a person really has a deep impact on people.
Hence, the typical social packs and layers which I couldn’t make an effort to intricate at the moment.
People, akin to matters. Some are solid and bold and some are of different matter.
Note: It’s not how we change other people, it’s how we change ourselves to fit into other people’s shoes.
As annoying as it sounds, it’s merely impossible to do so. I know I failed to do so.
My way, just stay in my comfort gradient without bothering those on different axis cause’ I do not want any intersection that could turn my gradient against it’s own line.
There's a funny quote that goes like "reasonable people adapt to the world, unreasonable ppl get the world to adapt to them. That's why all the progress of the world lies on the unreasonable ppl."
ReplyDeleteWell, not entirely true, but sad to think that sometimes we have to change to fit in.
I find it utterly hard to fit in, especially when they're just NOT my type of friends. But i seriously have no idea what circle of friends i have, they tend to change as my mentality changes.
ReplyDeletebut you might meet these kind of people at the working world, and you cant run away from them! lol
ReplyDeleteI find it hard to fit in too in the States because our priorities are so far apart, and you don't always find a Russian-speaking intellectual conversation-ist here! haha.
ReplyDeleteI do agree that our mental states change all the time and makes us look for different kinds of friends. Growing up inevitably leads to an impermanent, ever-changing state of mind. I think it's a good thing though, I mean, you won't want to carry the folly of youth right to when you're 80 haha!
Pa-kitaiski, 知音难求。That's why true friends should always stay connected cos they're so hard to find.